Generally, people would easily get mesmerized when they saw "happy-ever-after" pictures of someone they know. Thus will also leads to jealousy and sometimes their heart would whisper "i have it better than you" then they'll also take a better picture of themselves rather than the person whom they saw on the "h-e-a" pictures.
Do you get it? I guess i'm not so good in conveying information in English, but i'm trying my best to make it in English! inshaa Allah :)
Nowadays i'm getting influenced in stalking others' profile. i'm getting interested to know their storyline. FRANKLY. And ohhh it makes me feels SO bad. Because i'm not being me. The more i know bout them, the more i'm trying to have things more than they already had. This means what? UNGRATEFUL.
In Malay idioms, they call it 'Jaga tepi kain orang' . Ehh am i right? I guess the meaning is kinda similar. But i hate it. I want to stop it.
It is something good if we want to know a person in detail, in order to help her if she got any problem. But if they have uncertain vision on that, isn't it something wasteful? waste time, waste GB, and also waste brain energy to think of something which has no affair with us. Such a waste.
See how much 'waste' that i've typed there? The conclusion is: stalking is wasting. It's better for us to focus on ourselves rather others to ensure our own excellence. *in some cases* sometimes focusing on others is better, it shows how much we concern on our friends. But not too much till it brings contretemps to us :O *oops*
Sorry for this so-amatured-english. Scratchscratch finished! c:
These fingers are too heavy to play with the keyboards for now ? maybe, bcoz it's been few days since I didn't think of updating this blog. I don't want to ask "who care?" or "don't u miss me?" haha. that's just a piece of rubbish(ehh?) haha, kidding. don't take it seriously ladies n gentlemen. :j
The seconds I've thinking of friendship. I could see different sides of friendship way, whether in facebook with the status or posts, in television with the drama titled BFF or kejarkejar pelangi, in pmg, and other media. Yes, we could see friendship anywhere coz it's a common title in our life. So why did I mention it now, not previous year, 10 years ago nor before I was bornt in this world ?? coz I just realized it, this year and need to tell you something super-important! (ceuuuaahhh takbole blah.)
Ever read this surah ? so read it now.
"....dan sahabat-sahabat(karib di dunia dahulu) pada hari itu(hari akhirat) saling bermusuhan antara satu sama lain melainkan orang-orang yang bertaqwa." (Az-Zukhruf: 67)
Could anyone see through this holy words like a telescope ? To know what's Allah Azza wa Jalla really wants us to know.. It's not that easy. If someone could really collaborate it, he/she would be taking it seriously by exploring the real meaning of the words, relate it with the idea for today's friendship issue and utilize it in their own way (by spreading his/her discovery about it) . okay, I didn't even know how to convey it -.-'' .
Friendship is not about we must always connect with our besties everyday by using fb nor handset.
It's about connecting them in our pray, pray for their goodness.
Friendship is also not about getting fun experiences with them at Genting, Sunway Lagoon, Midvalley or what.
It's about reminding them about the mistakes that could lead them to destruction.
Friendship is not about saving ourselves from poor life, boredness nor sadness.
It's about bringing our friends to the ad-Din (the right way of life) which would lead us together to His heaven.
I like this hadith. how bout u ?
“Setiap hamba muslim yang mendoakan saudaranya tanpa pengetahuannya pasti akan didoakan malaikat dengan berkata: Engkau juga akan mendapat seumpamanya”
(HR Muslim)
Subhanallah. How wonderful ukhuwwah if it's built that way. Hope all of us know what's the real friendship value.
From the last Friday until yesterday, i've attended a program which is called "Perkampungan Menara Gading". It was held in German-Malaysian Institute, Bangi. Alhamdulillah, Allah gave me the most precious moment while I'm waiting for the SPM result another 13 days! (ohhmaii -.-) . I didn't expect this this activity would be this awesome. Glad that we had many superb tutors and fabulous participants. Yet they're too cool to me. oh yeah. jazakhallah khairan kasiran kakjah n haziqah for joining this program together as our part of friendship memoir. :)
The facilitators there are really entertaining + full of dedications. There were some brothers and sisters which were unforgettable such as Sis Syaza, Sis Shima, Sis Amal, Bro Umar, Bro syeikh, Bro K, also my own great tutor, Bro Wan. (kembang dh dia :j) . I met some awesome friends too . they're many but frankly I tell ya, I would never forget all of you. UPSI group member: Syeira, Syahira, Raihan, Azira, Amira, Aqila, Asyraf n Amiroul. You guys are really helpful, friendly and had made up a nice group cooperation. And the hamper as our victory..... mesti korang dah bantai habes kan? hakhakhak, salah saya gak sebab awal sangat balik. lagi2 takdapat begambar ngan korang. Sangat sedih. So sorry guys. My mum had waited me for 2hours outside the hall. So, that time, guilty really overwhelmed me. :'(
This program motivates me well. I like the Caca-Ca (Cakapcakap campus)-ade kak dila n kak ayu yg sangat comel!, Explorace, LDK, and the best one is "Menyelusuri Suatu Pencarian". The lecturer(tak ingat nama -.-) told us about the uniqueness of life from different perspective of world which people rarely realize. For example, Mark Zuckerberg (ahh. dia lagi?) He's major in psychology and he used it for others to release their psychology by creating Facebook. Who knows how? Only excellent thinkers would know :j. Life is not about "I wanna be an architect, and I WILL be an architect". It is about "I wanna achieve excellence whether to be an architect or psychologist or other career that Allah will give which is better than what what I think, then it'll give benefits to others". Again, the most important one is usaha, doa and tawakkal. (that's a common words but have high value!) Always remember, that we must become a value creator, not a person who used to be in a 'pandemic life'.
Along this PMG too, I could feel the warm Islamic condition. Alhamdulillah. Everyone were really kind and although I could see some arrogant face at last I discovered that they had decent hearts. ( I told ya, husnuzon really takes part in a situation like this). blublublub !(ehh what the peanut -.-)
I also didn't expect that I would give a talk in the "Sidang Pleno". Like a tah ape2 je aku cakap masa tu =_=. But also feel a lil' bit relief to fight back what the famous boy said about languanges in studying. (ehh ngumpat ke tu?) lantak :j
Owh no! There're still many things to be shared and scratched here as a part of memoir. But it's too long. it's ok , it's alrite (ehh mcm kenal ayat ni :j) kan kan kan. haha.
I was exposed about PEPIAS. This organisation really caught my interest. And when Bro Wan talked about it, I was like " wahh wahh! " (eh melebih pulak) . InsyaAllah. One day I would like to join a jemaah like this when I've stepped into a menara gading :)
Lastly, this song had give me a deep conversation to myself. let's hear some..
ok that's all for now. scratchscratch finished! :)
"You haven't get your spm result yet but already thinking of marriage??"
Some person would have said those things nowadays because they think it is too early to talk about marriage. I'm not saying that they're wrong, the thing is, everyone have their own rights to think about their future. maybe some will say, "You can't wait to have a marriage, aren't you?" HAHA. think positive guys.
think think think.
Nikah Khitbah. I knew that everybody already knew about this, which a man and a woman get married early (usually when they're still studying) and live separately for a while. For me, this type of marriage is better because you don't need to worry about adultery (zina). You could feel free to go for a date with your own spouse. How sweet huh ..(ehh?) anyway, this is rarely happen, because nowadays teenagers don't even care if they're socially mixed with member of opposite gender (okay what is that... -.-)
That's just one of the example!
Back to the real topic, did you have your own vision of your future? who'll be your life partner? where'll you live? what will you do with your life? okay, I'll tell you my own vision. if you don't want to know, just ignore the orange-coloured text. haha.
I could see that I am there in my big house, in my own village. There are many types of animals such as cows, chickens, and sheeps in my own mini zoo at the backyard. I live with my mother and father even after my marriage. I work as a successful architect. I have a husband who is titled as an Ustaz (woots!). I always need him to give me guidances about my own religion. Besides of working hard in my own carrier, I would never being neglectful about my children because I want them to become soleh and solehin.
InsyaAllah. I really hope that the things that I've dreamt for to become reality even if it's not 100% same as I wished. Besides, Allah knows the best for all of us.
You could say that the vision is our dream, yeah. the dream would become true if we think optimistically by giving effort on it together with do'a. most importantly, we must put the vision sincerely, which is to be blissed and to be pleased by Allah s.w.t.
It's better to have a vision/dream, rather than nothing to think about our future. At least we've marked a 'place' before we reach it. Imagine how pathetic if we don't have any checkpoint to be reached!
Whatever happens, make your own dream and believe it!
Owh and then.... do you noticed that I just using fully English in this post.... for the first time? kekekekek. well I always wanted to improve my English in school by speaking English with friends, but seems that now I have no friends to talk with in home. although it's kinda broken, at least I'm trying right? haha! forget it.
scratchscratch, finished! do have your own thoughts :)
orait . Nurul Jannah binti Abd Rahman is OFFICIALLY 18 years old. sudah semakin muda dan matang ! wahaa~~.
alhamdulillah. aku masih diberi peluang oleh Allah s.w.t untuk hidup sampai 18 taon lamenye. masih bernafas, sihat walafiat, tanpa cacat anggota. BERSYUKUR . semua orang pun patot begitu. sentiasa bersyukur dengan apeape je yang derang ada. sebab Dia dah tentukan apa yang baek n apa yang tak baek untuk kita. rite ?
neway, hari ni bukan burffday aku yang sebenar. ahahaa, malu korang eh wish banyakbanyak kat fb nonn.. (kalau ikut kalendar islam lahh) ngeehee. aku lahir 17 SYAABAN lah weii. (ala, sape nak kesa mse tu) haa, lantak! asal aku gembira waktu tu sebab aku sorang je sambut . lalalaa~
the truth is, aku tak rase papepon hari ni. tak hepy, tak sedih. cam harihari bese tuh. cuma rasa dihargai cket la sebab ramai anta wish kat wallpost. (bhehehe) thanx korang ! btw, aku hepi pon pasal sseorang yang anta mesej kat fb tu . sape eh? biarla RAHSIA . ^_^ adoi gedek ape...
Kepada sahabat-sahabat perempuan sekalian yang masih lagi keliru pasal hal ehwal aurat antara korang dengan saudara mara laki korang, contohnya BAPA SAUDARA dan SEPUPU LELAKI. korang wajib baca ni sebab aku tau ramai yang masih keliru pasal ni.
post ni diedit. maaf atas kesalahfahaman post yang sebelumnya. maka semudahnya korg tgok jelah gambar ni, senang cerita.
harapnya paham. segala yang musykil sekiranya ada ustaz ustazah baca silalah betulkan yee. syukran
hidup itu....
bukan sekadar untuk gelak ketawa dan berhibur untuk mendapatkan rase happy.
hidup itu....
bukan cuma nak cari kawan ramai2 pastu tunjuk kat orang lain yang kita ada ramai kawan.
hidup itu....
bukan sekadar nak berhias cantik-cantik pastu letak kat fb tunjuk 'aku ni lawa la, korang xtaw keh??'
hidup itu....
bukan cuma nak berdrama depan orang laki tunjukkan ke'cute'an yang kita ada.
hidup itu....
bukan untuk mendengar lagu-lagu hits kpop & english yang seronok didengar tapi melalaikan.
hidup itu....
bukan hanya apabila kita mempunyai ramai peminat x kiralah di sekolah, tempat kerja atau dalam internet.
hidup itu...
bukan bermakna kita kene ade banyak duit untuk menunjukkan martabat kita tinggi di sisi manusia.
hidup itu juga....
tak bermakna kita memerlukan kawan di sisi kita setiap masa samada dia di sebelah, di henpon atau di rangkaian sosial mcm fb, twitter, skype,dll.
HIDUP YANG SEBENAR
adalah berlandaskan takwa dan redha Allah. sama-samalah kita renong, tenong, dan nikmati cara hidup yang sebenar di muka bumi ini sebelum terlambat.
segala yang kita lakukan mesti la ikhlas kerana Allah Taala.
sebenarnya masih ramai antara kita yang gelap hati, tula susah nak amalkan gaya hidup Islam yg sebenar
pintu taubat sentiasa terbukak luas untuk korang. sedar x tu?
jadi, apa lagi? jom lah berusaha nak betulkan niat dalam hidop!
sori kalu ade yang terasa. aku ni pon bukannya orang perfect. cuma nak share, harap kita semua sedar yang kita ni UMAT AKHIR ZAMAN.
